So, I am in Europe now and it is my fifth time being here in the last 2 years. I remember being in London on one of these trips after a night on the town with friends following a shoot and all I wanted was some breakfast. I didn’t care that it would come with sauteed mushrooms, broiled tomatoes, and baked beans. I would eat around it. But, like every time that I ordered tea in London, I forgot to tell them no milk in my tea. It arrived with my breakfast and I was teetering on sending it back. Finally I said “fuck it…drink the damn tea the way they want to serve it to you and like it.” At least that is what went through my head. I like to have my food a certain way. I am known for this in the states to go into a restaurant and change the menu according to the way I want it. Well, that doesn’t really fly here in Europe. It isn’t Burger King and you can’t always have it your way. So, I drank the tea and got over it. The funny thing though is that when I got back to the states on one of my regular trips to coffee bean in the morning I added some nonfat milk to my tea. I started to like it and I pretty much always add milk to my hot and iced tea when I order it now. I had the same problem with salami sandwiches I would get in Paris. They come on a baguette with butter and salami. I would order one and scrape off the butter which was a pain in the butt. Now, I just eat them the way they come and actually I was craving one on the plane ride over to Europe this time. I have a few more weeks here and I know I will have Bratwurst in Munich and maybe even I can make myself try french fries with mayonnaise in Amsterdam. One thing is for sure, nobody has to twist my arm to try Guinness in Ireland. I am definitely looking forward to that experience.
You can’t always have it your way
September 17, 2008 by Aria GiovanniThat place in the grocery store
August 17, 2008 by Aria GiovanniSo, I woke up this morning and realized I was out of milk and had nothing to make my wonderful protein shake with. I went off to Ralphs and decided to pick up a few more items while I was there. I browsed the produce and grabbed some broccoli, asparagus, a sweet potato, a peach, some cherries, a tangelo, a couple of bananas and some grapes. I swung around the diary section and grabbed a gallon of organic non-fat milk. I picked up two tubs of hummus and some double fiber whole wheat bread. I wanted some Ito En green tea in a can but they were out. As I am swinging around to pick up a lemon herb rotisserie chicken for lunch I noticed this section of the grocery store. I hadn’t paid attention to it in ages, but I noticed it because a women with her 2 kids were going through the shelves and the little boy found some muffins there. Now, I bet most of you have never realized that there is this section in all major grocery stores, at least in the states, that has outdated food. The food is marked down and often hidden almost that if you didn’t pay attention you would never know that it existed. If you don’t believe this section exists ask someone the next time you are at the grocery store. I remember as a kid always loving this section. I liked when I found a surprise there of some sort that we could not normally afford but we would get if it was marked down enough. It made me stop and think how different life is now than when I was a kid. It almost seems like another life that I lived then. It makes me stop and remember how lucky I am and I appreciate all that my family has now. We have come a long way.
Melanoma
August 6, 2008 by Aria GiovanniI know that two related health blogs in a row is an odd coincidence but sometimes that is how life happens. So, some of you might of noticed my dermatologist appointments that are listed on my Myspace page in the past few months. I started to go to the dermatologist initially because I had a slightly raised mole in my bikini line. I kept cutting it when I would shave and eventually some scar tissue built up. It wasn’t exactly model friendly so I went to have it removed. The doctor removed the scar tissue but not the mole. Not sure why but that is the way it happened. I had an overall exam and he wanted to remove about 10 more moles that had black in them in different places of my body. I went to quite a few appointments to get this done and all my results came back class 2 which is abnormal but fine if removed. Well, the one on my bikini line started to give me problems again and I went back to have it removed. I came back a week later to have the stitch removed and the results had come back class 3. Now class 4 is melanoma so it is a little bit more serious than I thought my results would be. There was nothing odd about the mole itself to the unaided eye. It just so happened where it was located caused it to be in the way. I was surprised when my dermatologist told me that 1 in 20 melanoma’s occur in the groin where there is no sun exposure. Really? Why have I never read this before? You would think that that occurrence is high enough for it to be talked about. Who ever thinks about looking for odd moles in places that don’t get sun exposure? Anyways, I am not thrilled but I guess it could be worse. They have to remove the surrounding skin to make sure the abnormality has not spread. I am looking at 3 to 5 stitches. My doctor said that I am genetically predisposed for melanoma. I never thought I would be with olive skin and all. It definitely makes me look more closely at my body now and I guess the point is so should you.
Antibiotics: yeah or nay?
August 1, 2008 by Aria GiovanniI have been sick for the last week and almost every time I catch a cold I get bronchitis. No need to go to a doctor to tell me so for I have asthma and ever since I was a kid the same thing happens the same way each time. Now I know I sound pretty bad when I cough but I guess I am used to it. To other people’s ears around me I must sound like I am dying. I don’t feel like I am dying I just have a cough. A bad one at that. Now a few of my friends have asked me if I have seen a doctor and of course I say no. They ask why not and I say because all they are going to do is tell me that I have bronchitis and give me antibiotics. They say that if you take antibiotics it will go away sooner and I say no thank you. I don’t like the idea of taking medicine that I don’t need. I believe that my body is well equipped to fight the infection itself. It might take longer than a few days but it will happen and I will be back to normal without messing up the balance of my system. I am not stubborn to the point of being ridiculous though. I do admit that there are times that I will succumb to the need of taking antibiotics. For instance, if a secondary infection occurs that shows me my body is not strong enough to fight on its own, anything in the “female” department, uti’s, and in case of a major surgery I would agree to take preventive antibiotics. So, I guess my question is antibiotics: what do you think, yeah or nay?
He was cute until he opened his mouth
July 20, 2008 by Aria GiovanniWhy is that? You are out in public and you see someone across the room that you think is attractive until they open there mouth. You cannot believe what an idiot they become. Within 30 seconds they go from an 8 to a 2 just by talking. Unfortunately it does not work the other way around. If you see a guy that is a 2 on the attractive scale he doesn’t turn into an 8 by talking no matter how humorous and intelligent he may be. Of course he gains a few points but there is something about the initial attraction that is either there or not. I guess it works the other way too. I have had guy friends say they met a 10 and asked her out. On the date she can’t seem to carry a conversation and has a preoccupation with topics such as the new nail polish color that is out for the Spring collection. I guess there is someone for everyone but my friends have complained of a girl loosing all her points too from the same problem. It is always a bummer when this happens.
Live chats
July 16, 2008 by Aria GiovanniSo…it has been a work in progress to get my live chats up and running on my website, but I finally ironed everything out. I gave in and finally bought my first PC to make it happen, which I am still not excited about, but I think in the end it all will be well worth it. I joined a network that has Jelena Jensen, Nikki Nova, Natasha Yi, Felicia Tang, and myself doing live chats on a regular basis. Members of www.ariagiovanni.com have access to all the girls chats. Just in case you would like to check it out, my upcoming schedule for chats are:
07-21 5pm PST
07-28 4pm PST
08-06 5pm PST
08-13 5pm PST
08-18 6pm PST
08-27 7pm PST w/Jelena Jensen
See you there!
I don’t own a tv
July 8, 2008 by Aria GiovanniI don’t believe I have ever personally bought and owned a tv, but in the last 2 years I haven’t had one around. When I rented a room from a girlfriend, I asked if she could take the tv out of the room. I put a desk in its place so I can work. There are tv’s in hotel rooms I stay in but I never turn them on. I have no desire to either. I work, read, or go out instead. I am visiting friends right now and in the past few days people have congregated around the tv in the evenings. I tried to sit down and watch it but I get antsy. I don’t enjoy watching most programs and I just think there is so much more I could be getting done at that moment than trying to force myself into relaxing in front of something that makes me nervous. I know it sounds a bit crazy but years ago I could actually watch a show and enjoy it. Now, something has changed that I don’t have the patience for it anymore. I dread the situation where everyone is sitting in front of the tv and you feel obligated to do the same. I usually run off and take up reading in the end. I can only handle trying to watch tv for so long. The worse consequence from this is that I lack the knowledge of pop culture in general. Standing around in a group and I have no clue about any tv shows, very few movies, actors, etc… The conversation is way above my head and the inside jokes from movies I stand blank faced to the group. I have no clue what they are taking about or why it is so funny. I am not sure if there is anything I can do about it since I don’t care to learn how to watch tv again.
The week of launching blogs
July 2, 2008 by Aria GiovanniIt seems that both of my blog launches fell in the same week. It is funny how things happen like that when they were not planned to be that way in the first place. So, as you can see, I have transferred my Myspace blog to www.ariasblog.com I will be posting my blogs at this url from now on, so come back often to check it out. I also want to let you know for all those fans that have been interested in my travels and my stories behind the photos, well I launched a travel blog this week at www.booble.com/aria It seems that I will be knee deep in writing blogs for some time now, but I am not complaining. I am excited about both projects and hope you enjoy them too.
Cooking Barefoot
June 24, 2008 by Aria GiovanniI just went to two different friends houses to cook dinner two nights in a row. I forgot how much I enjoyed being in the kitchen. I use to have all girl dinner parties a few years ago. My girlfriends would come over and I would stand in the kitchen barefoot cooking in my pj’s. I often made the dinner parties pj mandatory so I wouldn’t be the only one. I love being comfortable while I cook. It was an awesome time to have 4 to 8 girlfriends over to cook for and open my wine. It was nice to hang out and have girl time. It seems that so many of us have gone our own ways lately that I think it might be a time in the past now. It is unfortunate because I wish it could of continued on. It will be nice one day to stay in one place and have my own kitchen again to cook in. I really do miss it.
Eat Pray Love
June 14, 2008 by Aria GiovanniWow, what a great book. It is not that it was so perfectly written, but I guess it is more of the timing in which I read this book. It is about a true story of a woman in her early thirties that leaves her husband, her home, and her career behind and decides to travel 4 months in Italy, 4 months in India, and 4 months in Indonesia. The journey and the realizations that she comes to is what is so interesting about the book. I have a quirky habit when I read books. I underline every passage that I relate to or that speaks to me. I sure have a whole lot of ink that I left in this book. To give an idea my favorite passage is: “People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that’s holding you back, the person that brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake…soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then they leave…purpose was to shake you up…show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light could get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you had to transform your life…-Elizabeth Gilbert
